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Everything is a Problem

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Have you ever said or thought  "Everything is a Problem" . I think that there is always a solution for every problem.  Sometimes it only takes rethinking the situation to realize it is not a problem.   Work is not what you thought it would be; you can feel stuck, as though in a rut with no where to go but out.   Maybe you realize your career is based on someone else's dream.  Maybe you are not where you want to be financially. Or, maybe you finally understand that you don't have what it takes for this career choice, but you can have IT for what you really want to do!   This does sound like everything is a problem. Well let's add being a member of a dysfunctional family; then there are issues of friends - the ones who you think fail you;  the folks who you get very angry with and only you can understand your anger;  then of course there is that messy word called "forgiveness" - it's the thing you don't want t...

Life Can Hurt

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You expect when you do wrong that there are hurtful consequences. But life can hurt when you do all the right things as well. So what do you do when the hurt is as a result of the right that you've done? Well I tried reciting all those good phrases And it did not help I prayed but the hurt was still there So what do you really do? I went into myself (my spirit), I evaluated my hurt (What was causing this? How can I stop this?) I realized my hurt was being fueled by a thought? I understood that I can only remove this thought with another. I got my victory! It did not take a few hours, days or even months As I continued using the principle of intentionally controlling my thoughts The hurts took less time to get over. Please share your thoughts and comments. I promise to respond. Stay Blessed, Stay Focused Connect with me;  Email :  traininganchor2017@gmail.com  Phone:   868-306-7291; 868-784-0529   Facebook :  Jai L...

Who are you?

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If asked to give five (5) words about myself I would say: Caring, Loving, Giving, Helpful and Humble. But then, if you are unable to see me caring and loving myself; or giving and being helpful to myself and not forgetting being humble then I need to take a good look at perception vs truth. How we see ourselves can be very different to the way others see us.  My actions can sometimes make my option of myself appear to be a lie.  While it is easy and almost second nature to care for others, love and give assistance, help and exhibit some form of humility, these actions on many occasions are not reflected to myself. For 2018 I would like to be a real version of who I think I am.  It is ok to look within and find the faults that we sometimes wish to hide.  It is even better when we have the opportunity of life to make desired changes to ourselves which will make those around us feel happy by our personal fulfillment and success.  I have been described as an ...

The Joy In Goal Setting

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Have you set any goals for 2018? I have recorded a whole set of goals for myself.  Goals are achievable when plans are put in place. Do you know what actions are require for your goals to be realized?   Plans require predetermined actions.  Our actions will result in moving goals into our own reality. Who are you accountable to if your goals are not realized?  Who will be celebrating your victories when you win?  Actions are mostly done when accountability is put in place. Moving from a thought to a clear purpose takes a lot of work which we are sometimes not ready for.  When setting goals its important to be realistic and understanding of your own capabilities and desire for accomplishment.  Acceptance of the goals has everything to do with the journey. My journey in the birthing of my company "Training Anchor" was more enjoyable than obtaining the realization of the goal "Training Anchor". Please share your thoughts and comments. I pr...

Personal Growth And Your Career

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Personal Growth is just what it says ... it's PERSONAL. I realized that it starts with me the individual.  I had to desire it.  I had to make it intentional.  I had to be persistent about it.  I had to understand that failure is part of the process to growth.  I did not really understand all of this until I actually started my journey!   I laughed when I read Sarah Ban Breathnach's quote, " Always remember that striving and struggle precede success , even in the dictionary ". From my experience, thinking harder or smarter will not help me grow. In fact doing will not help you.  Aging is different from growing.  Performing in a career without active development of any part of your self will not help you grow. In my own life journey, my career grew as I pursued various courses.    Personal development happens as you participate in activities and interact with others. We learn from each other.  Twelve years ...

Focus

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Focus is important to achievement. Thanking you for sharing your thoughts and comments below.  I promise to respond. Stay Blessed, Stay Focused Connect with me;  Email :  traininganchor2017@gmail.com  Phone:   868-306-7291; 868-784-0529   Facebook :  Jai Life Skills and Developmental Services Ltd Twitter :  ChrisAMitchell2   Linkedin: CA Mitchell Credits:  Header image - Pixabay.com © Dr. Chris Mitchell - Training Anchor, 2017. All Rights Reserved