Trini Training Anchor

Are You or Are You Not: An Emotional Abuser  OR  A Person who is Emotionally Abused?        To truly appreciate emotional abuse ( any act including confinement, isolation, verbal assault, humiliation, intimidation, or any other treatment which may diminish the sense of identity, dignity, and self-worth) we need to understand that there are different kinds of abuse. Discriminatory abuse. Financial abuse. Neglect. Physical abuse. Psychological and emotional abuse. Sexual abuse. Verbal abuse. I realize that emotional abuse takes place predominantly with individuals who have low self-esteem and self-confidence.  These individuals are normally trapped when trying to satisfy a need or a desire to be loved. LOVE is not blind but NEED is.           While symptoms of Emotional Abuse can be seen; the characteristics of an Emotional Abuser is not visible.    ...

Have you ever said or thought  "Everything is a Problem" . I think that there is always a solution for every problem.  Sometimes it only takes rethinking the situation to realize it is not a problem.   Work is not what you thought it would be; you can feel stuck, as though in a rut with no where to go but out.   Maybe you realize your career is based on someone else's dream.  Maybe you are not where you want to be financially. Or, maybe you finally understand that you don't have what it takes for this career choice, but you can have IT for what you really want to do!   This does sound like everything is a problem. Well let's add being a member of a dysfunctional family; then there are issues of friends - the ones who you think fail you;  the folks who you get very angry with and only you can understand your anger;  then of course there is that messy word called "forgiveness" - it's the thing you don't want t...

You expect when you do wrong that there are hurtful consequences. But life can hurt when you do all the right things as well. So what do you do when the hurt is as a result of the right that you've done? Well I tried reciting all those good phrases And it did not help I prayed but the hurt was still there So what do you really do? I went into myself (my spirit), I evaluated my hurt (What was causing this? How can I stop this?) I realized my hurt was being fueled by a thought? I understood that I can only remove this thought with another. I got my victory! It did not take a few hours, days or even months As I continued using the principle of intentionally controlling my thoughts The hurts took less time to get over. Please share your thoughts and comments. I promise to respond. Stay Blessed, Stay Focused Connect with me;  Email :  traininganchor2017@gmail.com  Phone:   868-306-7291; 868-784-0529   Facebook :  Jai L...

If asked to give five (5) words about myself I would say: Caring, Loving, Giving, Helpful and Humble. But then, if you are unable to see me caring and loving myself; or giving and being helpful to myself and not forgetting being humble then I need to take a good look at perception vs truth. How we see ourselves can be very different to the way others see us.  My actions can sometimes make my option of myself appear to be a lie.  While it is easy and almost second nature to care for others, love and give assistance, help and exhibit some form of humility, these actions on many occasions are not reflected to myself. For 2018 I would like to be a real version of who I think I am.  It is ok to look within and find the faults that we sometimes wish to hide.  It is even better when we have the opportunity of life to make desired changes to ourselves which will make those around us feel happy by our personal fulfillment and success.  I have been described as an ...